don't make noise...........

ohhh...i'm getting hurt day by day coz of this world..coz of our life...coz our politics... coz our demonstration....i can't say anything..coz i am not the one that like to make noise..to make something becomes hot and hot...when we try to object or support something radically, some parties or people will hate us....

so...this time...i want to share my opinion on what's happening nowadays....this is just my opinion...
one of the characteristics of being a legend or a good leader is accept another opinion...
so, where we are going to start...ok....
look at our politics itself in malaysia...it's getting worst day by day....about jump party, karpal singh got bullets, everybody tried to ruin our royal constitution, protest, demonstration and more....what can i said here is everybody try to show their strength, their goodness... what's the point??? everybody can't accept another opinion..everybody wanna show that they are the truth..so must follow them...i don't wanna touch about our political issue so much..let it be...i just can watch from far..what will happen and try to expect what will happen to us also....
i just wanna take a very simple example of this problem....
it is leadership....
yesss...that's the problem....since when we are started learning to be a leader???
i think most of us will say that since our primary school or certain will say secondary school....
in my opinion, it's not easy to be a REAL good leader....a leader is not born...but, leader can be born if we polish their talent...
actually, during this age, we also have to face such challenges or problems like the real politic system...the difference is we don't use money to deal with somebody... we just learn on how to coorperate with the others, how to settle all the problems in the school, how to bring up our school's name and etc....
actually. in the organisation itself faces certain problems....problems with the members...problem with the decision...some will try to oppose..
not everyone agrees with the decision...some will just keep quite coz they don't want to participate perhaps.....frankly speaking...in our living,there are different stages of people...who got power, who live under the power, and who got no power and poor.....
first... when we get power..we get wealth in this world..we will easy to forget our root... we want every things.. we want to show that we are the best..exactly is not..we actually can't say " i'm the best".....coz we are human...we are not god....we should know where we stand...if god take our BEST, we won't be the best anymore..perhaps the dumb one....so, just keep being yourself....
second, if we are the person who works under the power, we always wondering to be like them...sometime they do not ever look at our job..our reputation...our hardwork...sometimes, they will just select another person, or anybody that does not have any relationship with the company to be your leader...perhaps their niece or children..but we still need to respect them......
and the third category, i also sympathy with them...this world is actually cruel...every company try to find only best student or person to work with them...the one that qualified with all the qualifications..so, this type of people will miss evrythings coz they will get nothing...no education, no talent, no one wanna polish them..they will be left out......

ok..now...we look back at our own life...our own system...
look at our own leader....i believe that not all of us satisfy with what our leader's decision...
sometimes, we feel like he or she never want to know or ask about our opinion...
all they want us to do is just follow them...yess.. this is the problem...
one dissatisfy... and one make another more dissatisfy...
so??? what should we do???
first of all...i want to remind that nobody's perfect in this world...
in follower point of view...we want the leader to know what our problem,
our opinion, our wish and etc...if the leader just take it simply..
we will get mad coz we think that he or she does not considerate with us...
then...we start to rebel...start to hate him....actually...
getting mad is not the best way to show our displease....
btw...it is also not good attitude...it's mean that u never respect him...
in islamic, we as a follower should respect our leader eventhough he is a black that work as a sword maker or as a labour...as long as he's our leader..we must show our respect...
no respect, everything will turn out....

while, in leader point of view.....
we try to do everything to our club members, our society, community and whatever...
we do our best..with all the strength we have...we brainstorm our head,our mind...
think about what should we do to make our society alive....
sometimes, when we ask all the members to participate in activities that we have organised,
some will not join it..they prefer not to follow us...that's a challenge...
as a leader we should ask and try to understand them..why they don't want to join us....
and sometimes, everyone really hates us with our decision...but we never asked them why....
perhaps, they want our full explanation...may be we forget about that part....
as i said..nobody's perfect...
one thing that i know is... what makes a leader sad or want to cry....
it's when the members start to rebel him..start to hate him....he or she try to do the job whole-heartedly, but at the end...no body appreciate him...this is the part that every leader will feel so sad...we...as a follower should take note on this...please..please appreciate what our leader had done to us....

honestly....
it's difficult to be a very good leader....
that everybody respects....
that have its own "aura"....
not think about popularity....
not because want the title...having a title is nothing..only a title that make us forget our root..
have a great credibilty....
and brave to face everything...
from a smaller case till the biggest one...
one he say something, everyone will follow the order...
and a good leader means...
every member love him....not afraid with him....
and do not want to lose him............

finally...u think on your own....cooperation between both leader and follower is important in order to organise the society....
tq.......





...............................peace................................................